We’re not trying to convince you. We’re not trying to make you understand. Because you can’t. You simply cannot.

You will never know what it feels like to be a woman today. You will never carry what we carry. You will never bleed and nurture and smile through exhaustion while building something from nothing.

We don’t want your applause. We don’t want your understanding. We want one thing only: to be left in peace to build our new world.

A world that is rooted in dignity. In softness. In fierce truth. In safety. In love. A world where humans are humans, not objects or prey. A world where our kids can grow without the looming shadow of being harmed by “mature men with childish impulse control.”

You can come with us. You can join. But you cannot interrupt. You cannot drag your traumas into our new soil and call it nature.

Work on yourselves. Not for us. Not to “deserve” a healed partner. But so you stop hurting innocent people. Go to therapy.
Get your shit together.
And do it not for us. Do it for yourselves.
Because if you don’t — then stay the fuck out of the way.

Let us build. Let us birth. Let us breathe.

And if you won’t let us do that in peace — then we’ll do it with trumpets and fire.

But don’t mistake our softness for submission. Don’t mistake our kindness for consent. And don’t mistake our silence for approval.

Because we remember. We remember that viral question asked to fathers: Would you rather leave your daughter alone in the woods with a grizzly bear or with a man?

100% of the men answered: with the bear. Because if the bear kills her, it’ll be quick. But what a man might do? That thought made them sick.

Some even said:
The bear only attacks when he’s hungry or threatened.
A man?
He attacks because he can. Because he’s unseen. Because he’s unpunished.
And because he’s been conditioned to believe he has the right.

So no — we don’t need you to start our new world. We don’t need your validation. We don’t need you to see us. We don’t even need you to believe us.

Eventually — you will.
Eventually — you’ll be forced to.

Because when every woman refuses, when we collectively stop cooperating, when we reclaim what was always ours — then you’ll remember:

Leadership was always feminine.

We are portals. Souls enter this world through us. And now we are educated, aware, and awake enough to see the trap for what it was.

This isn’t a war. This is a return.

And no, we are not afraid. Thanks to you: Over centruies the pain you caused made us fearless.